LGBTQ+ Pride is beautiful

Dear Editor:
I have lived a life of beautiful transformation. From grappling with my sexuality to finally developing a healthy relationship with my gender identity, my place in the LGBTQ+ community is one I take great Pride in. And so, I would like to respond to Caroline Epp, who seems to think I have some “issues” that require her input.
I take concern that you feel it is appropriate to compare the origins of an unfortunate disability with the realization of an identity. You say that because no one explained the dangers of loud music to you, you suffered. And so you assume, that because no one -- absolutely NO ONE -- could have POSSIBLY told us the “dangers” of homosexuality, that we must also be suffering with some sort of consequence.
In one thing you are correct -- I did suffer. I suffered a lifetime of others speaking over me, telling me how I should live and how I should feel. These voices claimed to know me better than I do. According to a majority of people in my life, I was confused. My identity was a sin and my sexuality perverted. Unfortunately, my younger self had no alternative resources to rely on, therefore I had no one to guide and protect me at my most vulnerable time.
I was not born confused. I was not raised confused. I was made confused by those who told me I must be. I’ve always been me… it just took a while to recognize my own voice through the noise, and understand the person that was always there.
I would also like to comment on the religious nature of your letter and offer a friendly reminder. Despite the many churches in this community, there are a number of citizens in our area who are not of the Christian faith. While there are some in the LGBTQ+ community who do practice Christianity, my own standpoint is “been there, done that’’ and “not my cup of tea”.
LGBTQ+ Pride is beautiful. It’s our chance to show the world that we are authentic and genuine, loved and accepted. It’s a reminder that I am whole and powerful, rational and beautiful. I have a community that loves me, friends and family that support me, and a total understanding of who I am. The Pride March is nothing short of essential. It is our chance to speak -- instead of being spoken over -- and join together in a wonderful display of unity.
You wrote your letter with the hope of “raising the alarm” and a desire to address these “young and confused” people. Unfortunately for your cause… if I didn’t come out straight and cisgender while at my weakest, I certainly won’t be swayed to change while at my strongest.

Gabrielle Brosman 
(they/them), Aurora