From hospice to head of parade, Mom still inspires

  • Kurt Johnson
    Kurt Johnson
  • Chase County Fair parade grand marshal Elna Johnson, surrounded by members of her family.
    Chase County Fair parade grand marshal Elna Johnson, surrounded by members of her family.
  • Gov. Jim Pillen greeted the honoree, congratulating her on the honor of being named parade grand marshal.
    Gov. Jim Pillen greeted the honoree, congratulating her on the honor of being named parade grand marshal.

    She did it again.
    At 90 years of age, my mother continues to surprise me, filling our family with pride in ways I never expect. This past Saturday, she did it once more in a way that was both unexpected and deeply moving.
    Back in March, I shared with readers that my beloved mother, Elna Johnson, had made the courageous decision with her family’s support to enter hospice care. Her health was declining, and while her spirits remained bright the move felt like the beginning of her final chapter.
    The six months that followed have been an emotional roller coaster. There were moments of pain and confusion, but also treasured times together, playing games, working puzzles, and swapping stories that stitched together her remarkable life.
    And then, against all odds, her story turned an unexpected page. Quietly, steadily, Mom grew stronger. Strong enough, in fact, to “graduate” from hospice care, a transition I didn’t even realize was possible. A few weeks ago, she left the hospice suite and moved across the hall into a regular room at the nursing home in Imperial.
    True to her nature, she met the transition with grace. At first she was puzzled, having grown accustomed to the comforting routine of hospice, but then she smiled and said, “Someone else needs that space more than I do.” That’s Mom.
    Not long after came news that local leaders had nominated her to serve as grand marshal of the Chase County fair parade in her hometown. We weren’t surprised, as a lifetime of community service made her a worthy choice, but we wondered if she could handle the August heat and the attention after months indoors.
    We should have known better. Give a Dane a challenge, and it’s as good as done.
    Saturday morning was mild with a light breeze, almost as if the weather itself was cheering her on. With the help of a few therapy sessions, Mom had her “parade wave” perfected. She even tossed candy all the way to the curb, delighting both her and the waiting kids. The crowd was saying thank you, and Mom was radiant, smiling from ear to ear. At one point she leaned over and whispered, “I just wish your dad could be here. He would have been so proud.”
    He was there, Mom. We all felt it. And we, too, were proud, celebrating the life of a woman who has always given herself to family, faith and community with love and joy. Your inspiration lives on!
    KURT JOHNSON can be reached at kjohnson@ hamilton.net